美文閱讀：既然付出就不要期待回報(bào)

時(shí)間：2021-06-13 12:48:46 經(jīng)典美文我要投稿

　　既然付出就不要期待回報(bào)

美文閱讀：既然付出就不要期待回報(bào)

　　A man is known by the company he keeps they say. If it is so,then everyone is bound to have their baggage of loneliness with them as companions.loneliness is not something that doesn't exist at all with any human being on earth.Every human being feels lonely in his life at some point or other. It's but natural to have such feeling ,because that's what makes us all human and that is why we are as we are now.

　　他們說(shuō)人總是為他身邊的人所知的。如果是這樣的話(huà)，每個(gè)人都注定與孤獨(dú)為伍。孤獨(dú)感是每個(gè)人都會(huì)有的，都會(huì)在某個(gè)時(shí)候，感到孤獨(dú)，這是非常自然的。因?yàn)楣陋?dú)感令我們成人，并令我們成為現(xiàn)在的我們。

　　If we shed some light on why we feel aloof or lonely at times, we would be very much astonished or even probably surprised by the results. We ourselves are responsible for our selfdefined gloominess. This is because at times we really feel that we are uncared for or feel someone doesn't understand us.

　　如果我們?cè)偃伎紴槭裁次覀冇械臅r(shí)候會(huì)覺(jué)得高處不勝寒或孤獨(dú)時(shí)，我們會(huì)對(duì)分析的結(jié)果感到非常的吃驚。我們自己應(yīng)該對(duì)我們自己所定義的憂(yōu)郁付責(zé)任。因?yàn)橛械臅r(shí)候，我們真的覺(jué)得我們被忽視或者不被理解。

　　Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us. This feeling always gives us thoughts which picturise us always receiving the wrong end of the stick in life.The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing,have got the better of us. Expectation is the silent killer which murders millions of mushy and time tested relationships. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectationds,not many people would have had an aching heart and a life long grouse against there would have been better haves.If it wouldn't have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other.

　　有的時(shí)候我們過(guò)度的分析了真實(shí)的情況，這令我們自己產(chǎn)生了自己憐憫自己的`感覺(jué)。這種感覺(jué)經(jīng)常會(huì)給我們錯(cuò)覺(jué)，如果我們捫心自問(wèn)，真相并不總是真的，它們只是我們對(duì)身邊人和環(huán)境過(guò)高的期待。期待是一個(gè)沉默的殺手，謀殺了無(wú)數(shù)經(jīng)過(guò)時(shí)間考驗(yàn)的人也人之間的關(guān)系。如果沒(méi)有了對(duì)任何人的期待，那么這個(gè)世界將會(huì)并得更好。如果沒(méi)有期待，就不會(huì)有那么多人感到心疼，而對(duì)于有些人，一生的埋怨也就不會(huì)那么長(zhǎng)了。如果沒(méi)有那些不切實(shí)際的期待，也就不會(huì)有那么多夫妻離婚了。

　　How to come out of expectations them? Good question. The answer is when you give something, don't expect anything in return. When our mother gave birth to us, she never expected that we will give birth to her.She has just fulfilled her desire to raise a family and live for them. In the same way, let our actions make us live for our self and let not expectation screw up the major portion of your lives. Let us have the freedom and will power to express our love, affection and longingness for people whenever we feel. Let us not restrict our freedom of expression just because he or she is not responding the way we want them to.

　　那么怎樣才能跳出期望呢？好問(wèn)題。答案是，當(dāng)我們給予的時(shí)候，不要期待任何報(bào)答。我們的媽媽給予我們生命，決沒(méi)有期望我們也給予她生命。她僅僅是完成了她擁有一個(gè)家庭并為之而活的理想。同樣，讓我們?yōu)樽约憾�，不要讓期待成為你生命的大部分。讓我們自由的表達(dá)我們的愛(ài)感動(dòng)和渴望。當(dāng)別人沒(méi)有象我們期待的那樣回應(yīng)，我們也不要失去表達(dá)感情的自由。

　　Well all in all a little bit of loneliness is good for a self-analysis to keep a check over your actions. Introspection always makes you communicate with the innerself, but too much of introspection can make you scale the altitude of self pity. So show restrain at the right time.

　　當(dāng)然，總的來(lái)說(shuō)，一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)的孤獨(dú)對(duì)一個(gè)人審視自己的行為是有好處的。自省總是會(huì)使你與你的心靈有所交流。但是過(guò)度的自省，會(huì)使我們總感覺(jué)遺憾，因此，還是適而可止的好。

　　美文閱讀:真愛(ài)，零期待

　　什么是愛(ài)，又有多少人真正懂愛(ài)；零期待的愛(ài)，又有多少人能做到。只能說(shuō)，如果真愛(ài)對(duì)方，多點(diǎn)給予，少點(diǎn)索��；多點(diǎn)包容，少點(diǎn)要求。

　　真愛(ài)，零期待

　　I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with a little water and held it before me, and said this:

　　我曾有個(gè)朋友，我們的關(guān)系很親密。有一次我們坐在游泳池邊上，她載手掌里盛了點(diǎn)兒水，捧在我面前，說(shuō):

　　You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love. As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers around it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love… They try to posses it, they demand, they expect… and just like the water spillin out of your hand, Love will retrieve from you.

　　你仔細(xì)看我手上這水了嗎？那代表愛(ài)。只要你充滿(mǎn)關(guān)愛(ài)地彎曲著你的手指，并允許它保持在那兒，它會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)在那兒。但是，如果你試圖把你的手指在它周?chē)掀鸩⒃噲D占有它，它會(huì)通過(guò)它找到的縫溢出去。這是人們當(dāng)他們遇到愛(ài)時(shí)犯的最大的錯(cuò)誤…他們?cè)噲D占有它，他們要求，他們期待，那樣就像溢出你的手掌的水一樣，愛(ài)會(huì)從你身邊撤退。

　　For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature.

　　因?yàn)閻?ài)意味著自由隨意,你不能改變它的本性。

　　If you have people you love, allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true Love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feelno expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring.

　　如果你有愛(ài)的人，允許他們自由隨意的存在。給予而不指望；建議而不命令；請(qǐng)求而不要求；可能聽(tīng)起來(lái)簡(jiǎn)單，但這需要一輩子去實(shí)踐。這就是真愛(ài)的秘訣。真正去實(shí)踐它，你必須對(duì)那些你愛(ài)的人沒(méi)有期望，并給予無(wú)條件的關(guān)愛(ài)。

　　美文賞析:贊揚(yáng)的益處~(不要吝嗇于對(duì)別人的贊美）

　　有時(shí)候，我們總吝嗇于真誠(chéng)的去贊美別人，要知道，發(fā)自?xún)?nèi)心的贊美絕對(duì)是雙贏的。哈哈~大家試一下吧~要真誠(chéng)的哦。

　　贊揚(yáng)的益處

　　It was the end of my exhausting first day as a waitress in a busy New York restaurant. My cap had gone awry, my apron was stained, my feet ached. The loaded trays I carried felt heavier and heavier. Weary and discouraged, I didn't seem able to do anything right. As I made out a complicated check for a family with several children who had changed their ice-cream order a dozen times, I was ready to quit.

　　我在紐約一家繁忙餐館做女招待的第一天就要結(jié)束了，我感到精疲力盡。我的帽子歪了，圍裙上污跡斑斑，兩腳疼痛難忍。盛著食物的托盤(pán)讓我感覺(jué)越來(lái)越沉重。我又疲倦又沮喪，似乎什么事情都沒(méi)能干好。有一個(gè)帶著好幾個(gè)小孩的人家，他們?cè)谝ち钑r(shí)換來(lái)?yè)Q去多達(dá)十幾次，就在我為他們開(kāi)好復(fù)雜和賬單時(shí)，我準(zhǔn)備辭職不干了。

　　Then the father smiled at me as he handed me tip. "Well done," he said. "You've looked after us really well."

　　這時(shí)，那位當(dāng)父親一邊把小費(fèi)遞給我，一邊對(duì)我微笑�！案傻貌诲e(cuò)，”他說(shuō)，“你對(duì)我們照顧得真周到�！�

　　Suddenly my tiredness vanished. I smiled back, and later, when the manager asked me how I'd liked my first day, I said, "Fine!" Those few words of praise had changed everything.

　　頓時(shí)，我的倦意消失了。我對(duì)他也報(bào)以微笑。后來(lái)，經(jīng)理問(wèn)我第一天上班的感覺(jué)時(shí)，我說(shuō)：“好極了！”那不多的幾個(gè)贊美之辭改變了一切。

　　請(qǐng)不要讓你的愛(ài)繼續(xù)等待

　　Do not wait... 愛(ài)，永遠(yuǎn)禁不起等待

　　Don’t wait for a smile to be nice...

　　不要等到了一個(gè)笑容才面露慈善

　　Don’t wait to be loved, to love.

　　不要等被愛(ài)了以后，才要去愛(ài)

　　Don’t wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend.

　　不要等到寂寞了，才明白朋友的價(jià)值。

　　Don’t wait for the best job, to begin to work.

　　不要非要等到一份最好的工作，才要開(kāi)始工作

　　Don’t wait to have a lot, to share a bit.

　　不要等擁有許多后，才開(kāi)始分享一些

　　Don’t wait for the fall, to remember the advice.

　　不要等到失敗后，才記得別人的忠告

　　Don’t wait for pain, to believe in prayer.

　　不要等到受傷了，才相信愿意祈禱

　　Don’t wait to have time, to be able to serve.

　　不一定要等到有時(shí)間，才能夠去付出服務(wù)

　　Don’t wait for anybody else pain, to ask for apologies...

　　不要等別人受傷了，才來(lái)乞求原諒

　　... neither separation to make it up.

　　不要等到分開(kāi)了，才想到去挽回

　　Don’t wait...

　　Because you don’t know how long it will take.

　　不要等待,因?yàn)椋悴恢赖却枰ㄙM(fèi)多少的時(shí)間

　　Remember: Friendship is like wine, it gets better as it grows older.

　　記得：友誼像醇酒，越久越濃。

　　長(zhǎng)大后請(qǐng)不要再像個(gè)大孩子

　　想想吧，如果停止抱怨的話(huà)你會(huì)變得多么快樂(lè)。反正那些事情又無(wú)力改變，整天想著那些你無(wú)力改變的事情又有什么意義呢？如果你來(lái)問(wèn)我，我會(huì)說(shuō)那樣很愚蠢。當(dāng)你意識(shí)到自己在抱怨的時(shí)候，停下來(lái)，問(wèn)問(wèn)自己是要變得快樂(lè)，還是繼續(xù)這樣抱怨下去。

　　你準(zhǔn)備好過(guò)沒(méi)有抱怨，更加快樂(lè)的生活了嗎？

　　“Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.” —Dale Carnegie

　　If we really want to be happy, why do we act like such babies?

　　We can claim to be proactive in our life by settings goals and going after what we want. But if we’re always whining and complaining all the time, are we really living effectively?

　　If you don’t believe me, count how many times you complain about something or other in one day. Whether it be being stuck in traffic, being bothered by the weather, not enough mustard on your sandwich, or whatever it is, there are endless instances where you can find a reason to complain.

　　But it’s not just outside circumstances that we complain about. We complain about about ourselves too. We complain that we don’t have enough time, we don’t have enough money (this one is huge because it’s often “true”), that we’re not smart enough, cool enough, or just enough.

　　I know I’ve experienced plenty of unpleasantness due to complaining about things I can’t control. I never really thought about it much until I found this website about “l(fā)iving in a complain free world.”

　　Imagine how much happier you would be if you simply stopped complaining? Much of what you complain about is outside of your control anyway. What’s the point of brooding about something you have no power to change? Not very intelligent, if you ask me.

　　Simply becoming conscious of how much you complain is the first step to stopping. When you recognize that you’re complaining, stop and take notice of it. Ask yourself if you would rather complain, or be happy.

　　Are you ready to live a complaint-free, happier life?

　　英語(yǔ)美文不要等待Do not wait

　　不要等被愛(ài)了以后，才要去愛(ài)

　　Don't wait to be loved, to love

　　不要等到寂寞了，才明白朋友的價(jià)值、重要

　　Don't wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend.

　　不要非要等到一份最好的工作，才要開(kāi)始工作

　　Don't wait for the best job, to begin to work.

　　不要等擁有許多后，才開(kāi)始分享一些

　　Don't wait to have a lot, to share a bit.

　　不要等到失敗后，才記得別人的忠告

　　Don't wait for the fall, to remember the advice.